There is some VERY bad tuning available for your truck. There is no attempt to limit unspent emissions very often, and this will rapidly load up the DPF. In addition, it is easy to inadvertently change parameters that does harm to the regen efficiency. I can't comment on a specific manufacturer.
There is tuning available that doesn't do this so much, but since it takes a lot of time to develop, availability is limited to individuals that are interested in more than just neck snapping first impressions.
It is also possible that you are beginning to see the signs of DPF contamination. The other reality is that if you do a lot of short commutes (never gets hot), with stopping, you are screwed.
Monitor EGT1, if it is not getting over 1200F, then you have a tuning issue.